Many people are daunted by public speaking — especially in front of a room of people who they know well and meet often, but don’t fret – You might not need your own Geoffrey Rush/Lionel Logue to help you with your speech.

Here are a few tips;

How do I stop getting nervous?
The trick is; You won’t stop getting nervous. Even the best speakers don’t stop getting nervous. Politicians, Celebrities, Journalists – they all get nervous! Try to think of your speech in a different perspective. You’re not addressing the nation! Think of your speech as an anecdote and a toast with a larger than normal dinner-party.

How should I prepare?
Write your speech early! Practice as soon as you can. You don’t need to memorise every word, just know the general flow, the anecdotes you want to tell and the jokes you want to make. (Sometimes it’s best to be a little corny with the jokes. You don’t want to accidentally offend nana!)
If you’re most comfortable walking around whilst speaking, rather than standing behind a lectern; ask the venue and the MC beforehand if they can arrange for a radio microphone.

When should we do the speeches?
You can have the speeches at any time; but many couples find they work best before food is served, ubt after your guests have had a little time to socialise and have a few drinks.

Above all;
Be yourself. This is a great opportunity to say some things that mean a lot to you about people you care about, in front of all your friends and family. That’s not a chance people get very often, so make the most of it.